Thursday, November 25, 2010

今年的感恩节血拼----失败

又到了一年一度的美国黑色星期五,按照惯例,今天感恩节全家睡懒觉,早上醒来第一件事就是出去化了1块7毛五买了份当地的报纸。每年这田纳西人的感恩节版本中间附加了大量大量的当地大大小小店铺的黑色星期五广告。虽然,这些广告在网络上早就差不多提前两个星期就被泄露了,但还是几乎每年,我仍然会去再买一份,回来早饭也不做,把广告往地上一扔,坐在沙发上慢慢地开始淘宝。

到美国7个年头了,早已没有刚来都几年那个血拼的兴致了。一来那时也确实每年都会有东西需要,二来也是图个新鲜,这要融入美国主流社会么,那这黑色星期五的活动自然是要积极参与的。慢慢地,随着生活好转,该买的,不该买的,一年中也总是添了不少,这倒了感恩节了,看着那些眼花缭乱的广告,也不觉得有啥是非买不可的了,尤其是非要一大早4,5点爬起来排队做early bird了。从去年开始,就基本上是,只看,不拼了。虽然去年还是早上忍不住5点起来,开车出去乱逛一圈,最后也是啥也没买。

今年也不例外,看看也没啥好早起了去血拼的。不过,还是决定明天带全家去几个大型零售店逛逛。其中一个主要目标就是买枪----这是下午看了当地一家运动器材专卖店的广告后,才想起了,原来可以不用等到去学真枪,应该可以从BB gun---美国一种给小孩玩的气枪开始的。正好,那家店有BB gun打折,还包括另外一种汽手枪加上1万发子弹打折,看得我心痒痒,就跟湘湘聊起来,果然当地是老爸对儿子,湘湘看了后也激动异常。最后,孩子他妈看不下去了,说还没有跟领导请示呢。湘湘就去讨好他妈,结果被他妈有一次利用起来,说要买可以,但有个条件,就是今天晚上开始一个在自己的房间睡觉。没想到,儿子竟然一口答应了。最后,趁热打铁,一家人化了一个多小时,把他的房间重新清理干净,把床搬进去,放好书柜,床头柜,台灯,电子钟,就差一个书桌和凳子,也许诺了会尽快补上。

这不,今晚,是湘湘从出生后到现在,满过了8岁,第一次自己愿意独立睡一个房间的第一晚。

可喜可贺。

孩子他妈还有点不放心,怕他晚上会又爬回来。

等着瞧吧。

话扯远了,话说晚上在电脑前再次温习明天的血拼计划,看着电脑上的时间10点半,才想起家附近有家美国最大的玩具零售店是晚上10点开门。虽说买有什么东西要买的,但抱着积极参与的精神,决定还是冒雨前往围观。结果,路上不到5分钟就到了,没想到,真是没想到,停车场已经停满了,好不容易找了个位置,往店门走去,却看到依然还有人在排队。我就纳闷了,这不是10点就开门了么,现在都10点40了,怎么还在排队呢。正好,对面一个妇女走过,我就随口一问,那里是怎么了。那个妇女飞快地回应说,排队呀,都排到home depot了。我听了后心里想这可太夸张了吧,一个玩具点,至于么。一边想还是一边慢慢地走过去看个究竟,果不期然,黑呀呀的一线人群,弯弯扭扭沿着店铺建筑外形,一直排到了隔壁另一家全美最大的家用建筑材料专卖点home depot。连homedepot的停车场都停满了。看着这样的奇观,我是毅然决然扭头就往回走,天上还在飘着雨点,气温已经降到了快零度,看着这一群美国可爱的普通老百姓默默地秩序井然的排队血拼,心里感慨万千,这美国人不容易啊,好不容易有点便宜货,也不得不往人堆里扎才行。

幸好,自己没有具体目标,悻悻然开车回家了。结论:今年的黑色星期五早起的鸟也未必吃得到。

Thursday, May 27, 2010

学习钢琴三年之后

湘湘终于在学习钢琴三年之后,今年5月一口气跨出了二大步。第一是终于答应并且完成了钢琴汇演。这种汇演每学期一次,主要是把学琴的小朋友召集在一起,在众多家长面前表演。至今,我们还记得湘湘五岁时,学琴半年要参加表演,还特地买了衣服领带,结果一到表演场地,就开始哭,那哭得惊天动地。后来,也曾试过一两次,均已失败告终。这次,为了再给他一个机会,我们使出了杀手锏---金钱的诱惑。答应,若参加,就给100块奖励。加上妈妈今年拿到专业资格证书,加了工资,再给100块奖励。总共200大洋。这小子果然是有点继承了他老爸的优点,见钱眼开,还真答应了。虽然临到最后表演的那天,据孩子他妈讲,还是哭得一塌糊涂。孩子他妈就想出了一招说,要不要先拿点钱放在口袋里?湘湘点点头,就拿了张20的放在胸前的口袋,深呼吸了几下,也就不哭了。最后在钢琴老师先陪着弹一曲的情况下,坚持把第二首也独立地弹完了。可惜的是,那天,妹陀在车上睡着了,孩子他爸我也只好陪着,无法亲眼看到这些场景。等她哥哥弹完回到车上,我们妹陀也正好醒了。

这个是湘湘那天钢琴表演的视频, 我们湘湘那两个鞠躬可是货真价实的。



在youtube上也 有


在钢琴表演后的当月,听老师介绍和大力推荐,说belmont钢琴学院有个奖学金,老师认为湘湘有实力去申请。于是,我们展开金钱诱惑,跟湘湘说,只要参加,不管能不能拿到,就有50奖励,如果最后拿到,则总共200块的奖学金就都归他(也就是还可以多拿150)。一开始,湘湘也还是有抵触情绪的,比如说,这个奖学金需要写个申请,其中有项内容需要申请人写个东东谈谈为什么要学钢琴,为什么要申请这个奖学金等等。湘湘因为年龄问题,所以可以不用写文字,而代以画画等形式来表示。结果在离申请书最后截止日的前一晚,我们要湘湘画这么一副图,他就有开始闹情绪了,这时候,用钱也收买不了他了。他哭着喊着说:又不是我要学的,都是你们要我学的,我根本不想学!想着他说的也是实情,我们就最后逼迫他说,可以,没关系,就画这么一副图,说明你都是被逼的,说明你每次学琴都是因为有麦当劳吃.....结果,他还真画了这么一副效果逼真的图。



下面是他去面试时弹的两首曲子,非常好听。

曲子一:youtube土豆网



曲子二, youtube, 土豆网







这个是钢琴学院的director写信通知:

Dear Bob,

Congratulations! It is my pleasure to notify you that you have been chosen to receive a scholarship of $200.00 for the upcoming fall and spring semester ($100.00 for each semester). Our judge was extremely complimentary of your performance, and also encourage you to continue your studies. Comments from your adjudicator will be made available to your instructor. It is our hope that these comments will enhance and aid your studies for the upcoming year. Expectations of you for the upcoming year in conjunction with receiving your scholarship will be sent to you at a later date. With these expectations will be an agreement that you will need to sign and return to us.

We are proud to have you here at Belmont Academy and hope to continue our partnership in your musical education. If you have any questions or concerns, please do not hesitate to call me at 460-6346 or email us atbelmontacademy@belmont.edu.


Sincerely,

Director, Belmont Academy


在之前,就给钢琴老师写了个感谢信,孩子他妈看了表扬说写的很好,应该放在网上,就是这个了:



Hi, Judy,

First we'd like to say many thanks to you for being piano teacher of Bob. We have seen lot of improvements during this semester. After the very first lesson you gave, Bob's mommy told me how much she liked you and the way you taught. She said millions of times that she was so glad to have you teach Bob. Bob has been learning piano since his five, and his mommy has spent same time by sitting and watching his learning in the same room which gives her the best place to judge the progress Bob has made. As a father, I have never been qualified to be such a good chaperone but I am a very lucky listener.I can tell there is a lot better change in the way how he hits the keys. I have been feeling Bob is more like a serious piano player only since this semester. All of this good would not occur toBob without your great teaching and patience. Yes, Bob's mommy mentioned a lot that she was amazed by your endless enthusiasm and patience when you teach. We just couldn't say enough about how much we are so grateful.

Honestly, when we decided to let Bob start piano lesson, we didn't expect him to be a great piano player one day.I guess Bob would agree this very much too:-). Bob has been through a lot when we keep forcing him to practise at home. It was difficult for us to watch when he hit the keys with tons of tears in his eyes. One of the reasons for us to insist bob is that we hope he could learn lots of fun from playing piano and enjoy such a splendid life via music. While it might take long time for Bob to appreciate how his life is blessed, the other reason I guess Bob has already agreed on is that only practice makes perfect. Now, he is much calm and cooperative when he thinks of 20 minutes TV time after 10 mins of piano practice.

Speaking of the coming recital, We were actually very surprised and excited when he agreed to play in recital. He never successfully tried piano recital before. Magic things happened after you talked with Bob about recital. It would be his first milestone if he finally made it, which wouldn't be possible without you. We promised Bob no matter how he plays in the recital, he will get his rewards for his efforts. We only hope this will work:-).

Last thing is about the Merit Scholarship you mentioned today. We all thank you very much for sharing this information and your kindness for the recommendation. We talked about this with Bob and he kind of agreed although he didn't know the details yet. We decided to give a try and I attached two PDF file including one reference form for you to fill. My best hope is that if Bob could make it inpiano recital, he will survive the audition. I noticed that a list of appropriate scales are required and Bob also needs preparation for the audition. If you don't mind, we would like to compensate your extra time and effort if you think it is necessary. Just let us know.


Many thanks again.





Wednesday, March 31, 2010

儿子接见了一个大官

前天下班了去接儿子,儿子一看到我,就跟我说他上了电视了。我听了很奇怪,就问什么电视。他就说了一个名字,言下之意是他昨天看到他了。我也没在意,实际上是对那个名字不敏感。儿子就又重复了一遍,最后看我还是糊涂的样子,就把他的抬头讲出来了---田纳西州长。我这才反过来意识到那个名字还是蛮耳熟的么。路上,湘湘就开始讲如何跟田纳西州长Phil Bredesen碰头的故事。大意是说,昨天州长到他所在的小学去了。是因为本州从联邦搞到了一大笔钱,是跟教育有关的。州长很高兴,就在小学里做一个新闻发布会,需要小朋友做听众。那这些听众是如何产生的么。还是跟民主有关的东东---抽签。儿子就被抽到了。全校500多个学生,去掉学前班和一年级,从剩下的300多学生里抽了23个学生参加新闻发布会。我跟儿子说,这个你也够狠的,如此的中奖率也能被你搞到。儿子听了也不以为然,继续说,现场还有很多记者,拍照的拍照,摄像的摄像,一有小朋友提问,就会有记者对着猛拍一气。我就很着急地问他提问了没有。他摇摇头,然后说,很boring的。我说为什么,他说你看,州长说要1点来,我本来是12点40吃饭跟自己班上吃饭的,结果,不得不提前跟别的班吃饭,就是为了提早20分钟去图书馆等他,结果,搞了一下午,还错过了recess的时间。我听了后很是同情,说,是呀,不知这个州长有没有给你们每人发了礼物呀。儿子说,就是一些铅笔之类的。我说,那确实没劲,要是每个小朋友发一套lego该多好。儿子听了,只是叹气,看着窗外,一副神往的样子。


我还跟儿子说,这个州长是他目前见到的最大的官。爸爸本人还没这福气呢。


有照片为证。


http://www.mnps.org/Page67940.aspx

文中也说这些小朋友很幸运。可惜儿子不这么看。

这的确是一大笔钱,共有5亿美元。全美只有两个州拿到。结果州长却如此小气地把新闻发布会就放在当地一个小学的图书馆。搁在俺崛起的祖国,那排场,只怕吓着这帮老外。

再看看另外一个新闻网站的一个跟贴评论,很是有趣,说田纳西州是发了笔横财,纳税人的钱就是如此被这罪恶的政府给浪费掉的。

Guest
The Tennessean reported that Tennessee received a "windfall" for schools. Now where do they think the money originated? How about the taxpayers, or better yet, future taxpayers who will be paying for all "windfalls" from this evil administration。



Race to the Top Press Conference at Eakin Elementary

To officially announce Tennessee's win in the Race to the Top competition, Governor Phil Bredesen joined several state and local officials at Eakin Elementary School, where he addressed the state and the lucky students who were able to attend.

Tennessee's Race to the Top Proposal

Dr. Jesse Register, Mayor Karl Dean and U.S. Secretary of Education Arne Duncan meet, smiling at the camera.The State of Tennessee submitted a proposal in the U.S. Department of Education’s Race to the Top competition, seeking a total of $501.8 million in federal resources to spur education innovation across the Volunteer State.

Tennessee’s request exceeded recent estimates by about $17 million, mainly due to additional resources that are being sought for turnaround schools. Tennessee’s complete Race to the Top proposal, totaling 1,111 pages with supporting documents, can be found on the state Department of Education Web site at www.tn.gov/education.

Under federal guidelines, half of any Race to the Top funds received by Tennessee — which, as requested, would total $250.9 million — would be distributed directly to local school districts under the federal government’s existing Title I formula. The other half would be used to seed a “State Innovation Fund” underwriting a series of new investments over a four-year period. Major categories include: turnaround schools, great teachers and leaders, technology and data, oversight and implementation.

Dr. Jesse Register, Mayor Karl Dean and U.S. Secretary of Education Arne Duncan meet together in chairs.About the Federal Race to the Top Program

Created by the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act (ARRA), Race to the Top provides $4.35 billion in competitive grants designed to encourage and reward states that are implementing ambitious plans in four core education reform areas:

  • Adopting standards and assessments that prepare students to succeed in college and the workplace and to compete in the global economy;
  • Building data systems that measure student growth and success, and inform teachers and principals about how they can improve instruction;
  • Recruiting, developing, rewarding, and retaining effective teachers and principals, especially where they are needed most; and
  • Turning around the lowest-achieving schools.

In addition, the President and Secretary Duncan announced plans to seek an additional $1.35 billion in funding for Race to the Top in anticipation of an “overwhelming response” from states seeking awards this week, in the first round of the competition. Winning states in the first round are expected to be announced in April, to be followed by a second round of competition later in the year.


Friday, March 26, 2010

上厕所

在中国电信大楼里怒火中烧

在 中国电信大楼里怒火中烧

贺卫方


春节过后,我又返回石河子大学继续自己的支教生活。

32号,接到中国电信公司的短信,告诉说手机余额将尽,需要充值。恰好中国电信的营业大楼就在我住处旁 边,于是就来到大楼营业厅直接交费。

排队办理各种业务的人很多,等了半个多小时,仍然有些遥遥无期的样子。忽然有点内 急,就问那边一位穿着制服的女保安:“请问这里有洗手间么?”

“没有!”她表情生冷,好像谁惹她生气了的样子。

“这么多的人,这么好的营业厅,没有洗手间给顾客?”我有些不解。

“没有就是没有。有意见?那边有意见簿。”她手朝远处一指,看都不看我一眼。最可 气的是那声调有浓重的枪药味。

“你怎么这种态度?这里的标语不是写着‘客户至上’么?”我有些生气。

“我是保安,就这个样子!”她语调又高了几分。

“保安就可以对顾客这种态度?你拉这个脸给谁看?”我仔细看了她胸前挂着的名牌, 名字叫耿春玲。

“我父母就生我这样,你管不着!”

这真是遇到火气大的了。我怒气冲冲地来到大厅的值班经理那里投诉。那位更年轻的女 经理听了我的话,回答说:“她是保安,不归我们管。你要投诉她,要到保安公司去。你说的这个情况,我只能跟我们的领导反映一下。另外,的确,我们这个行业 属于特殊行业,按照规定,营业大厅是不设洗手间的……”

“但是,这么多的人排队,顾客要解手怎么办?”

“这个请你理解。你有意见可以在那边的意见簿上写出来,我们会重视的。”

管他会不会重视,我在那个写下了自己的愤怒。那个女保安就在旁边,脸上一种不屑的 表情。

出了大厅,寒风难熄心中的怒火。我有些后悔,只是图方便,使用了中国电信的手机 号。也觉得困惑:为什么营业厅管不着在这里工作的保安?还有,究竟是什么特殊行业的原因,让偌大的电信营业厅不设顾客可以使用的卫生间?那个大楼周边很难 找到公用卫生间的。

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trumask [160.129.20.*] @ 2010-3-26 22:56:19
说起来真让人耻笑。出来这么多年,看着中国如此飞速发展,真让人觉得自己当年实在是瞎了眼走错了路。如今,想回去都不好意思了。去年回去一趟吃饭的时候还 被哥哥的小舅子戏弄了一番:美国?那不就是没落了么?都靠中国人借钱才能过上日子,对吧。我只能苦笑无语。有时,也问自己,万一哪天回去了,有人问起,美 国到底有什么好呢。我想了半天,还真想不出什么特别的好,就打算这么回答:到美国这么多年,出门在外,一从不担心找不到厕所,二从来不用随身带卫生纸,三 从来不用花钱上厕所,四那个上厕所呀就是一种享受。看看,我尽是说了些啥呀,都不能上中国的桌面。

Friday, February 5, 2010

How do transfer books to iPhone or iPod Touch

It works very well

How do I transfer books from my computer to my iPhone or iPod Touch


1. get txt book
2. go to http://www.shucang.com/ to transfer the book into format of epub or by using any means
3. download you book in epub into local
4. follow this:

Deprecated: Transferring books via the USB cable (for epub or eReader) this option will no longer be available in Stanza 2.1
  1. If your books are in any format but eReader or epub, then convert your books to epub using Stanza Desktop or Calibre.
  2. Download and install the free "iPhone Explorer" utility from http://www.iphone-explorer.com, which allows you to transfer files over to your iPhone using the USB cable
  3. Connect your iPhone to your computer using the USB cable and launch iPhone Explorer
  4. Click the "Change Root" button and select the "/var/mobile/Media/DCIM/" option.
  5. Click the "New Folder" button rename the new folder "Stanza".
  6. Browse your computer for your books in the ePub or eReader format and drag them onto the "Stanza" folder.
  7. The next time you launch Stanza, all the books in that folder will be automatically imported into Stanza's library (and removed from that folder).
  8. Note: any other software that can transfer files over to the iPhone can be used for this method of transferring books in bulk. When Stanza launches, any files it finds in the folder named "/var/mobile/Media/DCIM/Stanza" will be imported into Stanza. For example, you can use the shareware "DiskAid" software to also transfer files.

Thursday, January 21, 2010

推特一周3:政府大楼是谁的?

今天,我们来参观州政府,顺便看看州长这伙人是不是在认真工作。 这位解说员的这番开场白于我可谓是震惊。不由地感叹,我们在国内受的狼奶教育。这其中的差距,大部分中国人是很难看到或看清楚的了。 from web


这交的税就被用来建造了这个政府大楼,并且被用来支付在里面工作人员的薪水,包括我的薪水。所以,在这里,我要感谢你们,所有人,作为光荣的纳税人。解说员还问道:你们知道谁在这里上班么?奥巴马,有的小朋友举手回答。解说员最后回答说是州长先生,还要州务卿。 from web

这第一个问题是:你们知道这个州政府大楼是属于谁的吗?有的小朋友回答no。有的则指着解说员说是你。解说员就笑了,回答说,我也可以算,不过只是其中一个所有者。而你们都是其中的所有者。然后解说员继续问:你们平常都喜欢买糖吃对不对?小朋友都大声回答是的。解说员继续说你们买糖,其中就要交税 from web

今天早上去参加了儿子学校的二年级学生fild trip。这也是第一次做school bus去参加fild trip。目的地是州政府和州博物馆。印象深刻的第一件事就是当学生们达到州政府后,有个男解说员介绍一些基本情况和注意事项。他讲的第一句话就是问了小朋友们一个问题: from web

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老婆有两次了问为什么没有更新博客。我回答说,有时觉得挺没意思的,因为即使是博客你也不能说所有你想说的,因为有些事情即使是家人和朋友,也是无法言说的。更不用说其中隐藏的情感和态度了。所以,对于所谓的伤疤,最好的办法就是捂住,然后蒙着头前行。 from web

人生了病,不能工作,却还是可以干家务活的。上周五开始,拼着感冒了也豁出去的精神把家里客厅做了make over. 人家是花百万改造,我的则是1000大洋即可。人家千里送提子是为博美人一笑,我们这么做也是为了让孩子他妈舒坦。孩子他妈还要笑话我讲一个吝啬鬼的有钱人捡了一只新鞋的故事。 from web

前天吃晚饭时儿子吵着说要老三,还问我们怎么样就可以就不要了,是不是送给人家了。看着孩子他妈在那里打马虎眼。我的心都碎了。问题问得真切,回答却是种残酷。感觉自己就真的是个killer一样的。最后湘湘总结说:幸好我不是adopted。难怪所有做人流的地方都是不允许小孩进去的。 from web

刚才科室同事告诉我说他老婆批评我了。说反对就反对了,竟然还来上班,不在家里陪老婆。问这男人是不是都没有感觉的。我不多说,就被人当作没感觉。不知道自己是否也应该象孩子他妈那样每天都哭几次。我不说只是不愿去往深了想。想多了不能解决问题,也对身体无益。 from web

孩子他妈还是承认了喜欢湘湘多些。说她喜欢聪明的人。这也从侧面反映了我是不聪明的。她觉得娜娜妹妹没有哥哥那么聪明。我是很替娜娜妹妹不平和不愤。我说妹陀是后发制人。感觉妹陀象极了小时候的我:也是老二,也是一样的看上去不聪明。但我不会让她遭遇跟我一样的境地。 from web